Making assumptions comes so natural to all of us- well it does to me. There is something lazy or unsure in all of us when it comes to calling up someone to help or find out where are they? Or simply hesitate to call up peeps because it’s easier to assume.
Our assumptions are rooted in our mentality. If we are of a positive mindset, we give the other person the benefit of a doubt or look at the situation from troubleshooting angle.
A negative minded person will assume the worst, literally.
When I reflect in myself doing it, I realise it stems from my anger issues and insecurities.
He doesn’t like me- I am not really that likeable. That’s why he hasn’t called!!!
She doesn’t want me at her party, I am not a good company or I don’t own such fashionable clothes.
Maid is so lazy, any excuse not to work and am sure she has decided to take an off for today without telling me. She might be really ill !!
The list is endless….. And it all stems from me. I project my insecurities onto others and make it the reason why something is not working out.
This card is good advise for me at present and I need to work this into my routine to invoke positivity and happiness in my thoughts.
How many of you assume the worst? Whats your logic for it?