I had been hearing a lot of rave reviews from friends and acquaintances alike about Elif Shafak’s novel The Forty Rules of Love. The underlining theme of Sufism running through this book is what had enchanted them. The book blurb did pique my curiosity and I ended up picking this book.
Title: The Forty Rules of Love
Author: Elif Shafak
Born in Strasbourg, France in 1971, Elif Shafak is a very popular female Turkish writer who loves to incorporate her cultural nuances into her stories which are generally woven around women and their issues while growing up in an Islamic state. She writes fiction in English and Turkish and has been translated into over 40 languages. She has been awarded the honorary distinction of Chevalier of the Order of Arts and Letters. Shafak has written over 13 books, including The Bastard of Istanbul, Black Milk, The Architect’s Apprentice and The Honour.
The Forty Rules of Love is a novel with twin storylines running parallel to each other and often mirroring reflections on each other.
The First narrative opens in the Contemporary today of Massachusetts, USA where Ella Rubenstein a forty-year old Jewish housewife lives an ordinary life. Ella has recently realised how unhappy her life is, despite a husband (who is cheating on her) and three children (who are overtly independent of her) and fears depression now. To revive herself, she joins a literary agency which gives her a book “Sweet Blasphemy” by Aziz Zahara to review. It is this book that forms the core of the second narrative as the author explores the life and thoughts of the Sufi poet Shams of Tabriz and the 13th century poet Rumi who becomes the former’s beloved disciple.
“On the Sufi path, first you discover the art of being alone amid the crowd. Next you discover the crowd within your solitude – the voices inside you.”― Elif Shafak,
As Ella reads the book, she is greatly influenced by the philosophy of Shamz and begins to reflect on her life vis-a-vis it. She also begins to correspond with the writer Aziz over emails and slowly falls in love with him. Ella realises the despondency of her life and begins to dream of a life with him. She has no qualms in giving up her current life in exchange for a life with Aziz.
Meanwhile Shamz has a vision of his death and sets out to find a suitable disciple for himself, who can be entrusted with his philosophy. His search takes him from Samarkand to Baghdad until he hears of Jalaluddin Rumi who is a Sufi poet of that time. Rumi falls in awe of Shamz and begins to follow him blindly, earning the wrath of his disciples and followers who see Shamz as a heretic and wish to see him dead.
“Try not to resist the changes that come your way. Instead let life live through you. And do not worry that your life is turning upside down. How do you know that the side you are used to is better than the one to come?” ― Elif Shafak,
Both Ella and Rumi explore their relationships via Aziz and Shamz, respectively and break the many shackles imposed by propriety and society. In the process both have to face some hard truths too.
All through, Shamz dispenses his thoughts on love and his sufi philosophy through many examples and events that propel the reader to absorb them effortlessly. He preaches and practices the essential Sufi wisdom of love without any restraint, often drawing the anger of the society which perceives him as violating their norms and conventions.
The book ends with Shamz death as seen by him and Aziz’s too who is suffering from an illness. Ella finds him but he is gravely ill and cannot be saved, despite her many ministrations.
Lasting Impression on me:
What stands out for me in this book is the message of love and living one’s life true to oneself. The ancient philosophy advocated by Shamz about love uniting all is beautiful and makes sense to me in this day and age too. The idea of self-love is something I have been exploring for quite a while now and this book talks about it abundantly. Love is what will set us free to live a life worth living; that is the core message of this book.
One cannot hide behind the rules of society and live a false life. By shedding the meaningless perceptions, deigned by others, we can be true to our true self and that is the self that is worth living for and living with.
The book abhors the moral policing and self-righteous preaching that a certain sect of the society is hell-bent on dispensing to the rest and talks about setting ourselves free with love. To live and let live is the biggest truth in this book for me.
I fell in love with this book as it echoed and answered a lot of questions that I had been asking at the time I picked up this book to read. Its one of the reasons why it settled so well with me. I have no hesitation in awarding this book a 5***** rating. Read this book when you have some free time, when your mind is free too from everyday hassles.
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